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DIETING with YOUR PARTNER: MAKING IT WORK

Sunday, September 13th, 2009

It has been stressed over and over again that when trying to lose weight, having someone to partner with increases the chances of success of both you and your partner.  In fact, your significant other may be the best dieting partner you can have.

According to a recent report from Yale University, when two people are equally motivated to lose weight, they can give each other support which would enable them to lose more weight than they do it without a partner.

Weight loss is a serious matter that goes far beyond counting calories.  It requires a lifestyle change which makes it a major endeavour thus support from loved ones, in particular one’s spouse, is crucial. 

Nutrition experts say that when partners commit to change their attitude about eating, the experience can be very beneficial and may even lead to permanent weight loss.  However, they also note that if one partner is committed and the other isn’t, conflict may arise.  The best thing to do is not to give up but simply lead by example and be as supportive and helpful as you can.  Being a good influence would most likely lead to positive results.

When your partner doesn’t have the same level of commitment as you, he or she may give up and would want you to do the same thing.  The best thing to do in such a situation is to try to find the reason for your partner’s struggle, further show your support, then emphasize your commitment to your new lifestyle and request for his or her support as well.  Do not allow your partner to sabotage your efforts.  

According to the same experts, when couples focus on merely "dieting together", the moment they "go off"  the diet, the old wrong eating habits are resumed and they start regaining the pounds they have lost.  Thus couples should instead aim for lasting changes in eating behaviour and attitude towards food and not merely restrict their caloric intake until their individual weight goals are achieved.  When people only think about cutting down on calories, they will be stuck in the cycle of losing and gaining with their weight constantly fluctuating. 

Communication is an integral part of this joint weight loss effort.  Dieting with your partner is a wonderful way to deepen your bond with each other and achieve a healthier body at the same time.  However, both of you need to keep the lines of communication open all the time.  You and your partner should both be assured of each other’s constant support.  In the same way that dieting can strengthen a relationship, it can also break apart one that’s already shaky. 

On the other hand, if both of you are seriously committed to it, dieting with your spouse can be a one-of-a-kind-experience where you can experience success together

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